Tuesday, January 1, 2013
Monday, December 31, 2012
Little Bites
of art and technology illuminating the way to the New Year...
I probably should call this post "Movie Madness". We had no power for a few days due to an ice storm followed by a "thunder-snow" and after huddling in a 40 degree house, opted to go to a really warm movie theater and see both "Lincoln" and "Les Miserables". They are fabulous...exquisitely acted and emotionally engaging.
So much so that one thing led to another and from these movies, especially "Lincoln", I learned volumes about my own family...people and places I had never heard of before. There were some truly stunning discoveries.
My family is fortunate to know a lot about many. While there have been some avid geneologists, they missed a huge part of one branch of the family that I unearthed.
I learned that the state where I have been living for over 27 years and thinking there was no familial connection at all, has hundreds of relatives who have been here since the early 1800's. I learned that this line goes back to a Dutch merchant who arrived in the New World in 1624 and was one of the first land owners in "New Amsterdam", now my beloved New York City. I learned, sadly, my family had slaves until the late 1700's, maybe beyond. Because some stayed in the North and some came South, they most likely fought against each other in The Civil War. I learned my great-grandfather's grandfather was one of Napoleon's grenadiers and his personal bodyguard. And there is so much more...all because of art and technology: the movies, an old family lithograph, an inquisitiveness about any possible ties to Lincoln and the incredible access to information on the web...one little bite after another.
All this has given me pause and thoughts for the New Year. There was a beautiful interview that aired on Christmas with CBS's Scott Pelley and Nazi death camp survivor and Nobel Laureate, Elie Wiesel. Technology allows me to hear these poignant words whenever I want to and need to...to have a reminder, to illuminate the way. When asked how to create peace, Mr. Wiesel said start with ending humiliation and taking small daily steps...little bites of peace, one at a time.
Getting ready to welcome in 2013 and all of its discoveries, here are my New Year's little bites...
May peace be with you and your families this coming year and always!
I probably should call this post "Movie Madness". We had no power for a few days due to an ice storm followed by a "thunder-snow" and after huddling in a 40 degree house, opted to go to a really warm movie theater and see both "Lincoln" and "Les Miserables". They are fabulous...exquisitely acted and emotionally engaging.
So much so that one thing led to another and from these movies, especially "Lincoln", I learned volumes about my own family...people and places I had never heard of before. There were some truly stunning discoveries.
My family is fortunate to know a lot about many. While there have been some avid geneologists, they missed a huge part of one branch of the family that I unearthed.
I learned that the state where I have been living for over 27 years and thinking there was no familial connection at all, has hundreds of relatives who have been here since the early 1800's. I learned that this line goes back to a Dutch merchant who arrived in the New World in 1624 and was one of the first land owners in "New Amsterdam", now my beloved New York City. I learned, sadly, my family had slaves until the late 1700's, maybe beyond. Because some stayed in the North and some came South, they most likely fought against each other in The Civil War. I learned my great-grandfather's grandfather was one of Napoleon's grenadiers and his personal bodyguard. And there is so much more...all because of art and technology: the movies, an old family lithograph, an inquisitiveness about any possible ties to Lincoln and the incredible access to information on the web...one little bite after another.
All this has given me pause and thoughts for the New Year. There was a beautiful interview that aired on Christmas with CBS's Scott Pelley and Nazi death camp survivor and Nobel Laureate, Elie Wiesel. Technology allows me to hear these poignant words whenever I want to and need to...to have a reminder, to illuminate the way. When asked how to create peace, Mr. Wiesel said start with ending humiliation and taking small daily steps...little bites of peace, one at a time.
Getting ready to welcome in 2013 and all of its discoveries, here are my New Year's little bites...
May peace be with you and your families this coming year and always!
Monday, December 24, 2012
Happy Christmas!
"I salute you! There is nothing I can give you which you have not; but there is much, that, while I cannot give, you can take.
No heaven can come to us unless our hearts find rest in it today. Take Heaven.
No peace lies in the future which is not hidden in this present instant. Take Peace.
The gloom of the world is but a shadow; behind it, yet, within our reach, is joy. Take Joy.
And so, at this Christmas time, I greet you, with the prayer that for you, now and forever, the day breaks and the shadows flee away."
A.D. 1513 Fra Giovanni
To you and yours...
Friday, December 21, 2012
Welcoming the Old Man
I love Winter. I find its unique beauty lovely and the comforting flavors of Winter's citrus fruits, root vegetables and greens irresistible. Although it is not really cold yet here, I am hopeful I will see some real snow this year. I found this gorgeous picture on the Internet and mentally, at least, am so there...
I also found this picture and with the first day of Winter here today, thought a toast to Old Man Winter would be a festive season opener. And, the mittens in the picture? Pure magic! 'Tis the season!
There are two suggestions for filling up that cup of warming cheer.
First, warm Ginger Carrot Juice or Soup. So easy to make: Grind up 2-3 carrots with half a peeled orange, a good (1/4 inch) thick slice of peeled ginger, a little water and 3-4 ice cubes. Really blend it until the pulp is super smooth and the consistency you like (add more water or ice) or strain it. I think, in a pinch, adding a good shot of freshly grated ginger to store bought carrot juice would work just fine. Heat to warm and sip. A cinnamon stick for stirring would be nice, too.
Then, I found this recipe and it sounds wonderful...crisp as a Winter's day and mellow as a fire in the fireplace. More than a little robust, it is just the perfect spirited toast for the day!
Welcome, Old Man! Happy Winter!
Winter's Spirited Bourbon
1/4 cup bourbon
1 1/2 to 2 tablespoons real maple syrup
2 tablespoons real fresh lemon juice (Meyer lemons would be fabulous here!)
Pinch of fine sea salt
Add all to a cocktail shaker filled with ice and shake well. Strain and serve chilled in a frosty glass or strain and warm slightly and serve in a heat resistant glass. Serves 1.
I also found this picture and with the first day of Winter here today, thought a toast to Old Man Winter would be a festive season opener. And, the mittens in the picture? Pure magic! 'Tis the season!
There are two suggestions for filling up that cup of warming cheer.
First, warm Ginger Carrot Juice or Soup. So easy to make: Grind up 2-3 carrots with half a peeled orange, a good (1/4 inch) thick slice of peeled ginger, a little water and 3-4 ice cubes. Really blend it until the pulp is super smooth and the consistency you like (add more water or ice) or strain it. I think, in a pinch, adding a good shot of freshly grated ginger to store bought carrot juice would work just fine. Heat to warm and sip. A cinnamon stick for stirring would be nice, too.
Then, I found this recipe and it sounds wonderful...crisp as a Winter's day and mellow as a fire in the fireplace. More than a little robust, it is just the perfect spirited toast for the day!
Welcome, Old Man! Happy Winter!
Winter's Spirited Bourbon
1/4 cup bourbon
1 1/2 to 2 tablespoons real maple syrup
2 tablespoons real fresh lemon juice (Meyer lemons would be fabulous here!)
Pinch of fine sea salt
Add all to a cocktail shaker filled with ice and shake well. Strain and serve chilled in a frosty glass or strain and warm slightly and serve in a heat resistant glass. Serves 1.
Wednesday, December 12, 2012
Voices of Light
It is Monday, December 17, 2012.
Maybe like you, I have sat stunned and tearful since the news on Friday. I had a few fleeting moments where I thought, "What's wrong with people?" Then I had to correct myself. There was plenty wrong with that one young man and plenty right with most everyone else.
I have never thought of kindness as a random act. I believe it is an intention and I also believe most people have chosen to live kindly. We don't share often enough or loudly enough the stories of kind deeds. I think they define us so much more than horrific acts. And so, here are three stories I would like to share. What are yours? Please share and help me turn up the volume on these voices of light.
The first story is about a woman I met in the parking lot of a shopping center where I was musing over what to do next. It was a Sunday and as she discovered me, it was starting to get dark. My car had somehow locked itself...seriously, a short of some kind, and being a Sunday, I couldn't get ahold of a locksmith. She asked me how she could help me and I mean, she meant it. She rattled off all kinds of ways she could ease my situation and none of it was superficial or perfunctory. Her concern and kindness were deep and comforting. It is hard to describe exactly and so I will just leave it at that.
The second story concerns my mom's first caregiver, a lovely, generous woman who annually uses her own time and money to cook up several turkeys with dressing for Thanksgiving. Then, she takes them to a local church where people have an open invitation to bring a dish and join in a delicious community dinner. The church is packed every year. Not being able to own her home, she has paid rent for years. This Christmas will be her first as a homeowner. The family that was her landlord has mirrored her generosity and kindness and gifted her a home of her own.
The third happened at the farmers' market, not just this weekend, but many weekends...the extra head of lettuce, bag of kale, pound of butter that my market friends have slipped into my bag.
I like to think that there are all kinds of these stories out there and they are so prevalent that we just don't notice. But I am going to notice these more and give the attention to all those who intentionally live a compassionate, kind life. These are the voices of light that can help make kindness so big and bright that darkness has only slivers of shadows left, way too small to hide in and too silent to be heard.
This gorgeous picture from The Giving Room shows light of a new day about to fill up every nook and cranny of the bay. Let it shine peace, kindness and comfort.
Maybe like you, I have sat stunned and tearful since the news on Friday. I had a few fleeting moments where I thought, "What's wrong with people?" Then I had to correct myself. There was plenty wrong with that one young man and plenty right with most everyone else.
I have never thought of kindness as a random act. I believe it is an intention and I also believe most people have chosen to live kindly. We don't share often enough or loudly enough the stories of kind deeds. I think they define us so much more than horrific acts. And so, here are three stories I would like to share. What are yours? Please share and help me turn up the volume on these voices of light.
The first story is about a woman I met in the parking lot of a shopping center where I was musing over what to do next. It was a Sunday and as she discovered me, it was starting to get dark. My car had somehow locked itself...seriously, a short of some kind, and being a Sunday, I couldn't get ahold of a locksmith. She asked me how she could help me and I mean, she meant it. She rattled off all kinds of ways she could ease my situation and none of it was superficial or perfunctory. Her concern and kindness were deep and comforting. It is hard to describe exactly and so I will just leave it at that.
The second story concerns my mom's first caregiver, a lovely, generous woman who annually uses her own time and money to cook up several turkeys with dressing for Thanksgiving. Then, she takes them to a local church where people have an open invitation to bring a dish and join in a delicious community dinner. The church is packed every year. Not being able to own her home, she has paid rent for years. This Christmas will be her first as a homeowner. The family that was her landlord has mirrored her generosity and kindness and gifted her a home of her own.
The third happened at the farmers' market, not just this weekend, but many weekends...the extra head of lettuce, bag of kale, pound of butter that my market friends have slipped into my bag.
I like to think that there are all kinds of these stories out there and they are so prevalent that we just don't notice. But I am going to notice these more and give the attention to all those who intentionally live a compassionate, kind life. These are the voices of light that can help make kindness so big and bright that darkness has only slivers of shadows left, way too small to hide in and too silent to be heard.
This gorgeous picture from The Giving Room shows light of a new day about to fill up every nook and cranny of the bay. Let it shine peace, kindness and comfort.
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